I’ve been thinking about how to say this properly, because I don’t want it to come out the wrong way.
You’ve become really important to me, and over time my feelings for you have grown into something deeper. When I told you before that I love you, I meant it and I still do. It’s not something I just say lightly.
At the same time, I remember you once mentioned that you have a boyfriend. I’ve respected that, because the last thing I’d ever want is to put you in a difficult position or cross a line.
But I’ll be honest sometimes I feel like there’s something between us too. Maybe I’m wrong, maybe I’m overthinking it, but I didn’t want to keep guessing or misunderstanding things.
So I just want to ask you openly and respectfully: are you still in that relationship?
I’m not asking to pressure you or rush you into anything. I just want clarity, so I can understand where I stand and handle my feelings the right way.
No matter what your answer is, I respect you, and I appreciate having you in my life. I just felt it was better to be real with you than to keep everything unsaid.